My Beginning

It was in 2010, I returned from a Doctor's visit, my son and I had a  conversation.
How was the Doctors?
Good
Did they figure out how to help
No baby, they didn't
Are they going to figure it out?
I don't know
Didn't they go to  school for this?
Yes they did, but sometimes they just don't
know
Can't we figure it  out?
Pardon
 If they can't, cant we try to figure it out and get you better
 Yes we can
 Ok, lets do that

---

and off he walked to watch a movie with his younger sister.  It was so simple to  a child.  Why not make it simple again, this conversation changed my attitude, my perception, and how I handle what life presented me.

I was a single mother of two children, 30  years old, and living with Fibromyalgia that had consumed my life in every  aspect.  I was diagnosed  in  2005, had tried everything that the Doctors had  suggested, and  nothing would touch the pain.  If it had not been for my son, and later my daughter I would still be surviving instead of living.  Through changes  in my life, being true to myself, and focusing on what was truly important,I saw an increase, and then a decrease in pain, and soon I started  waking up daily without pain....I had forgotten and rejoiced in it.

In November of 2010 I had my final flare up (the ones where a breeze makes you scream in  agony), and since have lived pain and drug free. 

I enjoy my life, my children,  and live to the fullest.   I found the changes that could last for life, changes, adjustments that allowed me to no longer be defined by Fibro.

My path has led me to helping others who are currently affected by Fibromyalgia, including individuals who are part of the support system.   Assisting in the support of finding a path that  works for  you, the life you have, and want.  I work with those who are ready to be honest, truthful and willing to go through an increase of pain for long term results, instead of an immediate solution 

You cannot heal in others what you have not healed in yourself.

My Philosophy

Be Truly Honest With Yourself.

When looking at Fibromyalgia, the diagnosis, the treatments, the daily life, all aspects we seem to forget to look at the most important person, ourselves. 

We look for the cause of Fibromyalgia, a car accident, a surgery, a traumatic event.  We look for a treatment that will offer an assistance, medicinal, alternative, therapies.  When time passes we look for something to blame, direct our angry in not having any relief and only seem to have the symptoms become more debilitating, the Doctors, our family who does not help or understand, society for not providing the support, the validation for the syndrome.  Ourselves, you, is not looked at.

Responsibility for your healing lays within your hands.  Until you are ready to take control, truly look at yourself, you will not find full success with anything that is offered to you.